
I’ve always used humor in my lectures and presentations. Despite the cautionary notes from many books on public speaking regarding the risks of humor, I have found the rewards (in audience goodwill and attentiveness) to be worth putting yourself out on that limb. Plus, I just can’t help myself.
Humor is a part of who I am (a part of who we all are), and to purposefully keep it out of a presentation would be unnatural.
I do a lot of speaking overseas, and in many cases these presentations are translated while I deliver them in English. I was once asked by a colleague, “I suppose you have to remove all of your jokes, huh?” “No,” I replied, “I simply make adjustments in the type of joke I tell.” One type of humor that rarely fails to translate across cultures: jokes about human nature.
For example, I once told a Chinese audience a story about how proud I was to show my mother a giant hole that I had dug in the backyard when I was five. In describing my mother’s reaction, I told the audience that “she looked at me as though I were a cat that had just brought her a dead mouse.” There was that odd silent pause as the translator converted my joke, and then a burst of laughter from the audience.
The humor in this observation hinged upon a funny concept - one which you didn’t need to own a cat to appreciate. There was no word play, and there were no clever pop cultural references. There was just a simple observation of life. It didn’t even matter how my exact words were translated, as long as the universal concept was conveyed.
The result was that a connection was made. We all felt closer in the room at that moment. We shared an understanding. And isn’t that ultimately what it’s all about?